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This launches her into an inspired monologue about the many ways in which being an overweight woman is being worse than an overweight guy. And yet you would never date a girl like me.” It’s a cutting point: Louie, the very embodiment of portliness and schlumpiness, sees himself as somehow above women who are overweight. They’re conditioned to see themselves as beneatheveryone. “Men tend to prefer skinny women, whereas women tend to prefer medium-sized men.It’s unfair, she complains, that overweight guys often vie for slimmer women, ignoring women like her. “If you were standing over there, looking at us, you know what you’d see? And, even beyond that point, weight is more strongly linked to a woman’s attractiveness than a man’s.” What complicates things a bit, though, is that men and women aren’t as different as we think they are when it comes to how important looks are in the grand scheme of things.When I realised that he was ashamed of being seen with me, I felt as if I had been punched in the stomach - a place where much of my pain already resided.To him, I was f*ckable, but not datable, and he dumped me soon after that conversation.
We might run into one of my buddies," he said moving his body further away from me.
Men are still “perceived to be more agentic, assertive, dominant, and women more dependent, emotional,etc.” There’s an ingrained assumption, then, that men have stuff to “trade,” but women don’t, and this assumption is part of the reason it’s still seen as weird when an unattractive woman dates an attractive man — what could she possibly be trading?